How to move on

You can be unique just by being who you are

In life, there will be times when dreams get shattered. When that one thing you blindly believed was going to work out doesn't. Most of us have been there, in a place outside our comfort zone. A place where we feel lost and lack the energy and self-belief needed to start again. But fear not: This is part of your journey, and you have to travel along that path to come to better roads. In situations like this, you can give up, dwell on it, or learn from the failure and pursue your dream somewhere else. The events we bring upon ourselves are necessary in order to learn important lessons.

Take as an example a failed relationship, or a relationship where one party walked away, leaving the other person in limbo and worse, still in love. What can you do? Physical pain usually has a cure, but there is no remedy for a broken heart. No medicine will make that kind of pain go away. Usually it takes time, but the period it takes for it to heal can feel eternal and leave scars that will undoubtedly change the person into a more skeptical one where matters of love are concerned. In cases like this, the main thing is to stop feeling unhappy with yourself and cease trying to get the attention of those who have hurt you. Your task is to move forward. Why pursue people who don't really care about you? If someone treats you badly, there is something wrong with them, not you. Normal people don't go around destroying other human beings' lives.